It Has To Be Me Episode

The New Rules Of
Women's Health

Meghan Rabbitt

Episode #104: April 30th, 2026

THE GOLD FROM THIS EPISODE

“Heart disease is the number one cause of death in women. But, when women go to the emergency room with symptoms of a heart attack, they typically wait 10 to 15 minutes longer than their male counterparts to be evaluated. Tell them you're afraid you're having a heart attack to get seen immediately.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“Do monthly breast self-exams. When you know the landscape of your breast tissue, you’re more likely to catch things early when cancer is more treatable, and treatment will be less invasive.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“The Tyrer-Cuzick Risk Assessment Calculator is a great tool to determine your lifetime risk of breast cancer.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“Breast tissue is categorized into four levels of density which affects mammogram accuracy. The four categories (A-D) are: almost entirely fatty, areas of fibroglandular density, heterogeneously dense, and extremely dense. Your mammogram report will tell you what category you are in.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“Menopause is a turning point for bone health. Estrogen is a signaling molecule that our bones rely on. So, when estrogen walks out the door, bone health depreciates. Diet is important, and exercise like jumping and strength training sparks bone growth. Hormone therapy can also be effective in preventing osteoporosis.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“Women’s immune systems are different. We mount stronger immune responses than our male counterparts. We have more antibodies, but also more autoantibodies. This could be one reason why autoimmune conditions happen more frequently in women.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“Colorectal cancer is the third most common cancer in women. Colonoscopies can be more difficult in women because our colons are longer and windier, and if you’ve had a C-section or hysterectomy and C-section there is scar tissue which can complicate things further. Look at your poop regularly and note any changes.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“The female brain grows more estrogen receptors after menopause to sop up any bit of estrogen our bodies are still making because it is so important for brain function. We are not talking enough about the role stress and cortisol plays in brain health.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“You get to hire and fire doctors. Take charge of your health with preventative care. Conduct thorough research for quality practitioners, and make appointments in advance. Collect your data, have it ready to present, and be an engaged patient that will inspire a doctor.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“Menopause is a crucial window of opportunity for preventing disease over 50. Get those screening tests on your calendar and maintain regular appointments.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“To prepare for your medical appointments, know your personal and family medical history, listen to your body and collect the data. Have a list of medications and supplements (or take a photo), and prioritize your symptoms according to how much they are impacting your quality of life to have the most productive conversation with your practitioner.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

“Listen to your body. Get curious about what's happening and ask questions from your medical team. If you don’t feel respected and seen when you speak up, find somebody else who will listen with an open mind and heart, and work with you to find appropriate solutions.”

Meghan Rabbitt

Author and Journalist

in THIS EPISODE

  • Ladies: Do not miss this conversation with Meghan Rabbit—journalist and author of The New Rules Of Women’s Health—for breaking news that can save your life.

  • We start the conversation with how historical neglect of women’s bodies in medical research has lasting impacts, ranging from screening equipment poorly suited to our anatomy to healthcare systems that don’t understand or support our needs.

  • Meghan lays out the gaps, challenges, and overlooked truths in women’s healthcare, and explains why we find ourselves misdiagnosed, dismissed, or left without real answers. From chronic pain, osteoporosis, and autoimmune disease to depression and Alzheimer’s, women make up 70 to 80% of patients yet wait longer to be evaluated and taken seriously.

  • We explore why heart disease is the number-one cause of death in women, how female hearts and signs of heart attack differ from those of men, and what to say at the emergency room so you get seen by a doctor now, not shoved into some corridor.

  • We then dive into how hormone health impacts everything from brain function to immune responses to bone health, why pain should never be ignored, and how to assess your breast health beyond mammograms. Meghan targets menopause as our strategic window of opportunity for preventing disease over 50.

  • She covers how to find good doctors and prepare for appointments, and the most effective ways to communicate with practitioners for the best healthcare experience.

  • The key takeaway: Get to know your body so you can advocate for yourself and fast-track your way to solutions. 

TESS'S TAKEAWAYS

  • Women make up 80% of people with autoimmune disease and osteoporosis.

  • Women mount stronger immune responses than men which can lead to autoimmune disease.

  • Women make up 70% of chronic pain patients, and 2/3 of people with Alzheimer’s disease.

  • To prevent chronic pain, don’t push through—listen to pain signals, and seek treatment.

  • Only about 30% of participants in drug trials are women.

  • Participating in studies increases data on women’s health and helps you access medical care.

  • Only 4% of women take hormone therapy. But often, the benefits outweigh the risks. 

  • Many women don’t do mammograms because of radiation. You get more exposure on a plane.

ABOUT MEGHAN

Author of The New Rules Of Women's Health, Meghan Rabbitt is an award-winning journalist who specializes in writing about women’s health and wellness. 

Her work has appeared in numerous media outlets, including Women’s Health, Prevention, Oprah Daily, Maria Shriver’s Sunday Paper, NPR, and others. 

She’s known for translating complex medical and scientific topics into clear, actionable information—and for telling stories that help women better understand their bodies, their health, and themselves.