It Has To Be Me Episode

RELEASE STRESS AND TRAUMA

Kelly Lubeck

Episode #24: October 17th, 2024

THE GOLD FROM THIS EPISODE

"Self-care is not a luxury, it is the most powerful form of doing. It is an act of service and revolution. When we show up well, we're able to do so much more."

Kelly Lubeck, MPH, RYT

Shamanic Healing Practitioner and Coach

"The brain doesn't like to surrender. Change is scary. Change is danger. Change means death. The brain will do what it can to bring you back to what it believes is safe, whether that is true or not."

Kelly Lubeck, MPH, RYT

Shamanic Healing Practitioner and Coach

"Trauma creates patterns in your nervous system that informs how you relate and behave. These patterns get woven into your body, and somatic work can help unwind these patterns for deeper healing."

Kelly Lubeck, MPH, RYT

Shamanic Healing Practitioner and Coach

"Befriend the resistance to loving yourself. If you are always overriding your essential needs and real nervous system responses, your body believes it is unsafe to step outside of that pattern. Somatic work can help the body shift into different patterns to create safety around change."

Kelly Lubeck, MPH, RYT

Shamanic Healing Practitioner and Coach

"The way you breathe shapes your nervous system and gives signals to your brain and your body. Just slowing down your breath helps you to feel safe."

Kelly Lubeck, MPH, RYT

Shamanic Healing Practitioner and Coach

"We store survival stress by sucking things up, choking back tears, and not communicating what we need. Make time to check in with yourself and listen to what your body needs to release the stress."

Kelly Lubeck, MPH, RYT

Shamanic Healing Practitioner and Coach

"The world needs you well. When you show up well, what you can do is so much more powerful, and you can help others to be well."

Kelly Lubeck, MPH, RYT

Shamanic Healing Practitioner and Coach

"The dream in your heart is your unique expression of change in the world. Clear away the parts of you that are holding back from believing it is safe to live into that dream."

Kelly Lubeck, MPH, RYT

Shamanic Healing Practitioner and Coach

in THIS EPISODE

  • Kelly Lubeck, shamanic healing practitioner, shares simple strategies you can use to connect with your body, release stress and trauma, and embrace change to magnify your contribution.

  • We dive into Kelly’s journey of healing from vicarious trauma while working in Africa and post-war Central America. She recounts her big “It Has To Be Me” moment when her body shut down, and she literally lost her fingerprints!

  • Through a variety of healing modalities, Kelly learned to listen to her body and embrace self-care not as a luxury, but as an act of service and revolution for positive change. She now helps other women prioritize their self-care in order to pursue and fulfill their purposes.

  • Kelly walks us through simple movement, breathing, and sound techniques that can be woven into everyday life to calm and shift your energy. Regulating your nervous system, releasing stress, and holding your experiences in balance are things you get better at the more you practice them. 

  • Kelly’s call to action: Ignore your body and it will demand you pay attention. Listen to your body and you have a greater capacity to heal and serve.

TESS'S TAKEAWAYS

  • Self-care is not a luxury, but a form of service and revolution.

  • Befriend your resistance to self-care as a way of embracing change.

  • Your brain doesn’t like change, but your body demands it.

  • Cultivate a practice of listening to your body’s signals for better wellbeing.

  • Movement, breathwork, and singing help you regulate your nervous system.

  • Keep in a place of healing to be ready for whatever comes.

  • When you show up well, you help others to show up well.

  • Let go of what you believe is not safe about your dream and pursue it.

ABOUT KELLY

Kelly Lubeck, MPH, RYT is passionate about helping changemakers stay embodied, heal holistically, and lead with clarity, confidence, and compassion, without sacrificing themselves to their mission.

She creates positive change in the world through private client work, group programs, workshops, and speaking engagements. 

With a Master’s in Public Health from Columbia University, Kelly has over 25 years’ experience developing and leading public health initiatives in the United States, Africa, and in post-war Central America.

Combining that work with her training as a yoga teacher, soul-centered coach, and shamanic healing practitioner, she uses the science of the nervous system and a variety of holistic health practices to help women leaders heal from trauma and balance the demands of life and leadership.