It Has To Be Me Episode

DIRECTING AUDIOBOOKS:
The VOICE CAN't ACT

Paul Alan Ruben

Episode #84: December 11th, 2025

THE GOLD FROM THIS EPISODE

“My job as an audiobook director is to assist actors in connecting themselves to the emotional consequences of the story—to the feelings and subtext, and give it back to us as the listeners.”

Paul Alan Ruben

Director / Writer

“When narrating audiobooks, you're reading, but the listener doesn't want to think you're reading. They want to believe that the action is happening right now, and they’re a part of it.”

Paul Alan Ruben

Director / Writer

“Actors cloak themselves with habits that they regard as technique. These things damage their emotional capacity to connect with the feelings in the story, and give that back truthfully.”

Paul Alan Ruben

Director / Writer

“I like to eliminate the nomenclature “actor” and substitute it with “replicator”. The actor is replicating real life to the degree that no one can tell.”

Paul Alan Ruben

Director / Writer

“The voice makes sound, but it cannot act. When an actor modulates their voice to affect character or emotion, it’s not believable. When the actor is deprived of using their voice in a performative way, they can connect emotionally to the feelings underneath the words, and then the story is real to us.”

Paul Alan Ruben

Director / Writer

“You can't act words. As a narrator, give yourself enough time to inhabit the feeling, and play the silent spaces in the story. That's where the drama is.”

Paul Alan Ruben

Director / Writer

“Audiobook listeners want to be ahead of the narrator. If they're led, then the actor is doing all the work for them. That removes them aesthetically and emotionally. The listener wants to anticipate what they don't know in real time.”

Paul Alan Ruben

Director / Writer

“If your outcome as a listener is to get it over with, play an audiobook at a faster speed. If you want to be connected to the story and feel something, listen at the original speed.”

Paul Alan Ruben

Director / Writer

in THIS EPISODE

  • Audiobook fans and narrators: Paul Alan Ruben, Grammy-winning director, walks us through the process of working with actors to deliver riveting performances that make us feel like we’re living inside the story.

  • Tracking Paul’s journey from acting with Second City to directing and writing, he recalls why he stopped chasing laughs, and the moment that cemented his decision to direct actors. To collaborate with authors and publishers, he started an audio production company, and became a go-to director for high-profile titles with celebrities.

  • Diving into what makes a compelling audiobook, Paul looks at why we lean into some narrators and not others. It’s not about the genre, a savvy reader, or a “golden” voice. It’s about a great actor intuiting the feelings of the character, and not only delivering the subtext with the words, but breathing life into the silence—what’s not being said. Takeaway: Turn up the playback speed and you'll miss the nuances of the performance.

  • Paul imparts key lessons from directing Meryl Streep, Burt Reynolds, Michael J. Fox, Lynn Redgrave, Johnny Depp, senators and cabinet members, and his insights on working productively with people, regardless of status or star power.

  • Paul says to the actor and the listener alike: Understanding a story has zero to do with position or intellect. Give yourself the time to listen, feel, believe, and experience, and go on a magic carpet ride. 

TESS'S TAKEAWAYS

  • What makes great audiobooks is great acting, not just clear reading or vocal tone.

  • Great audiobook narrators don’t “try to sound like” the characters; they become them.

  • Structure and technique matter; it’s more important to connect with the emotional core.

  • The truth of a story exists in the silent “white” spaces—what is not spoken.

  • An actor who conveys the emotional subtext behind the words captivate the listener.

  • Narrators who use vocal tricks in place of emotional connection lose the listener.

  • Audiobook listeners want to be ahead of the actor, to anticipate what they don’t know. 

  • As an actor, be emotionally connected to your world, and the worlds you want to inhabit.

ABOUT PAUL

Paul Alan Ruben has produced and directed audiobooks since 1990, winning numerous awards, including Grammys for Al Franken's Lies and the Lying Liars Who Tell Them, and Always Looking Up by Michael J. Fox. 

Teaching and coaching professional actors in the United States, Paul has cast and directed many first-time audiobook performers who’ve become celebrated narrators. 

In his earlier career, Paul worked writing TV and theater, and has contributed features to Audiofile and Dadcentric magazines and The Washington Post. 

His short story collection, Terms of Engagement: Stories of the father and son was published in 2018, and narrated by a stellar multi-cast including George Guidall and Scott Brick. 

Paul lives in Brooklyn with fellow audiobook director, his wife Paula.